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''Jeff, One Lonely Guy'' is a 2012 nonfiction book by
Jeff Ragsdale Jeffrey Charles "Jeff" Ragsdale () is an American author, documentary filmmaker, actor and stand-up comedian. In 2011 he posted a flyer in New York City as a "social experiment", stating his phone number and asking people to call him, describing ...
. It was published on March 20, 2012 by New Harvest.
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selected the book for inclusion in
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2012, and it was a GQ 2012 "Book of the Year". In 2014 Amitava Kumar included portions of ''Jeff, One Lonely Guy'' in his newly released book, ''A Matter of Rats: A Short Biography of Patna''. Kumar previously interviewed Ragsdale and wrote about him in ''The New York Times''.


Background

In October 2011 Ragsdale posted several fliers around New York City as a social experiment. The fliers stated "If anyone wants to talk about anything, call me”, followed by his phone number. The fliers quickly went viral after images were posted on
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, with Ragsdale receiving hundreds of phone calls and texts daily from people from all over the world. Ragsdale collected many of the phone calls and texts into a book project similar to
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. Ragsdale compiled the material into a manuscript, illustrating major themes that appeared most often in the correspondences. Ragsdale weaved personal essays throughout the manuscript to detail and illuminate his relationships, family life, and his forays into the New York stand-up comedy world.


Reception

Critical reception for Ragsdale's book, ''Jeff, One Lonely Guy'', has been very positive, with
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praising ''Jeff, One Lonely Guy'': "The symphony of voices here is an overwhelming reading experience. This short book is also a verification of a legitimate new form of narrative; it’s the definitive document so far of where our medium is heading. I've never read anything like it." Ellis writes on
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: "The most powerful reading experience I've had in the last year is ''Jeff, One Lonely Guy'' by Jeff Ragsdale". He continues, "What I mean about a new art form: ''Jeff, One Lonely Guy'' by Jeff Ragsdale is really the first example of successful post-Empire reportage yet."
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writes, "I love this—a great idea, and so deftly put together. A telling mosaic of modern loneliness and almost-connectedness." Poet and critic
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asserts: "We have crossed over the threshold ith Ragsdale's new collage form and are now—strangely, terrifyingly, beautifully—in this transformed world.” Literary critic, JW McCormack, writing for
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, describes it as "revolutionary". A reviewer for the
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commented that individual reader reception would be "a matter of personal taste" and that " me will be delighted at how well Ragsdale appears to know them. Others may just throw the book across the room in disgust. In the case of the latter, one should probably attempt to finish reading the entire thing first".


Reality show based on flyer

In June 2013 Ragsdale was approached by
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producer David A. Hurwitz (
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, Million Second Quiz,
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). Hurwitz was interested in developing a television show based on Ragsdale's social experiments and conceptual art projects. In fall 2013 Ragsdale and Hurwitz teamed up, wrote, and shot the pilot for the reality show, ''Being Noticed''. The pilot was shot in Hollywood, Santa Monica, Venice Beach, Malibu, as well as various locations throughout Sherman Oaks. The cast and crew numbered in the dozens and the pilot was shot over the course of several weeks.


''Hotline'' documentary

Ragsdale stars in the award-winning 2014 documentary feature film, ''
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'', which ''
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'' calls "brilliant". The film is directed by acclaimed
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producer and director, Tony Shaff. Shaff and his film crew followed Ragsdale around New York City for weeks as Ragsdale worked his "Lonely Guy" hotline. ''Hotline'' premiered in
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at Hot Docs in April 2014, where it was an official selection and audience and jury favorite. On August 9, 2014 ''Hotline'' won First Prize for Best Feature Documentary at the
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. On May 9, 2014 the Brooklyn Film Festival announced that ''Hotline'' had been selected for inclusion in its prestigious feature film line-up.


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External links


Official book website
2012 non-fiction books American non-fiction books Books about crowd psychology