John Mordechai Gottman (born April 26, 1942) is an American
psychologist
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and
professor emeritus
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of psychology at the
University of Washington
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. His research focuses on divorce prediction and marital stability through relationship analyses. Gottman's work is centered on the field of relationship
counseling: enhanced relationship functioning and mitigation of behaviors detrimental to human relationships. Gottman's work has also contributed to the development of important concepts on
social sequence analysis.
In 1996, Gottman co-founded and led The Gottman Institute alongside his wife, psychologist
Julie Schwartz Gottman. Together, they are the co-founders of Affective Software Inc., a program seeking to make marriage and relationship counseling procedures more accessible to a broader audience.
Personal life
John Gottman was born on April 26, 1942, in the
Dominican Republic
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to
Orthodox Jewish parents. His father was a
rabbi
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in pre-World War II
Vienna
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. Gottman was educated in a
Lubavitch Yeshiva Elementary School in Brooklyn. Gottman practices
Conservative Judaism, keeps
kosher (follows Jewish dietary laws) and observes
Shabbat
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.
In 1987, he married
Julie Schwartz, a psychotherapist. His two previous marriages had ended in divorce. He has a daughter named Moriah Gottman. John and Julie Gottman live in
Washington state.
Education and work experience
John Gottman received his bachelor's degree in Mathematics-Physics from
Fairleigh Dickinson University in 1962. In 1964, he earned his master's in Mathematics-Psychology from the
Massachusetts Institute of Technology
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. He received a second master's degree in Clinical Psychology-Mathematics in 1967, and a PhD in Clinical Psychology in 1971 from the
University of Wisconsin
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.
At Fairleigh Dickinson University, Gottman worked as an instructor for the mathematics department, a research assistant for the department of physics, and a researcher for the school of engineering. At the
Lawrence Radiation Laboratory, he worked as a computer programmer and mathematician. He was a program evaluator and research designer for the
Wisconsin Department of Public Instruction. In 1981, Gottman became a professor of psychology at the
University of Illinois. Additionally, he was a professor of psychology at the
University of Washington
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for 16 years. Since 2002, Gottman has worked as the emeritus Professor of Psychology for the University of Washington and as the executive director for the Relationship Research Institute in Seattle.
Awards and honors
Gottman has been the recipient of four
National Institute of Mental Health Research Scientist Awards: the
American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy Distinguished Research Scientist Award, the American Family Therapy Academy Award for Most Distinguished Contributor to Family Systems Research, the
American Psychological Association
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Division of Family Psychology, Presidential Citation for Outstanding Lifetime Research Contribution and the National Council of Family Relations, 1994 Burgess Award for Outstanding Career in Theory and Research.
["About John Gottman"]
on the Gottman Institute website In addition, Gottman takes a spot in the Psychotherapy Networker's Top 10 Most Influential Therapists of the past quarter-century.
In 2021, Gottman received an honorary
Doctor of Science degree from the
University of Wisconsin–Madison
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.
Works
Gottman has published over 190 papers, and is the author or co-author of 40 books, notably:
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See also
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Thin-slicing
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Julie Shwartz Gottman
References
External links
The Gottman Institute website(Edge)
An Interview with John Gottman(Psychotherapy.net)
Gottman's ''Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work''- Commentary from ''50 Psychology Classics'' (2007)
John Gottman: Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child KUOW-FM Speaker Forum
John Gottman : Couples workshop training first time in London United Kingdom in 2013
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1942 births
Living people
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University of Wisconsin alumni
Massachusetts Institute of Technology alumni