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Jacob Tobia (born August 7, 1991) is an American
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activist, writer, producer, television host, and actor. In 2019, they published their memoir titled '' Sissy: A Coming-of-Gender Story''. They are also the voice of Double Trouble in
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' animated series ''
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''. Tobia has been recognized in
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and
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.


Early life and education

Tobia's grandparents were
Syrians Syrians ( ar, سُورِيُّون, ''Sūriyyīn'') are an Eastern Mediterranean ethnic group indigenous to the Levant. They share common Levantine Semitic roots. The cultural and linguistic heritage of the Syrian people is a blend of both indi ...
who immigrated to the United States in the 1950s and spoke
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, which Tobia says is "the language that I do not speak but wish I could." Tobia was raised in
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, by a
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family. They graduated in 2010 from
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, serving as president of the Gay-Straight Alliance and being active in student government. Tobia applied to
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and was accepted, but chose to attend
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instead, where they graduated ''
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'' with a degree in Human Rights Advocacy. While a student at Duke, Tobia served as the vice president of equity and outreach for Duke Student Government, was co-president of Blue Devils United, and was president of Duke Students for Gender Neutrality.


Career and activism

Tobia is a Point Foundation Scholar, Harry S. Truman Scholar, and a recipient of the Campus Pride National Voice and Action Award. Their writing has been featured on
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,
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, ''
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'', ''
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'', ''
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'', ''
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,'' and other media outlets. They've also served on conference panels and spoken at
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,
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,
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, and various LGBTQ conferences across the United States. They worked for the
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, the
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, and the Astraea Lesbian Foundation for Justice before starting a career in television. In September 2013, Tobia raised over $10,000 for the
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running across the
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in five-inch heels as part of their Clinton Global Initiative University (CGI U) commitment to action. They were recently honored again for their larger impact on the LGBTQIA+ community by CGI U in 2018 at the University of Chicago. Tobia was featured in
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's ''The T Word'', where they were interviewed by
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. In 2015, Tobia was profiled in the
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Award-nominated episode of ''True Life: I'm Genderqueer'' by MTV. In 2016 they were named in ''Out'''s ''100''. Later in 2016, Tobia created, co-produced, and hosted ''Queer 2.0'', an original LGBTQ series for
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. In 2017, Tobia moved from New York to Los Angeles to begin working on Season 4 of
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's series ''
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''. Tobia also provided the voice of Double Trouble in season 4 of ''
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.'' In 2018, Tobia became the face of an advertising campaign for the gender non-conforming makeup brand Fluide, promoting a line of lip colors named after
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spaces, such as gay bars.


''Sissy''

In June 2017, Tobia announced the release of a memoir titled ''Sissy''. The book sold in a six-figure deal to Putnam Books. ''Sissy'' was released in March 2019 and was a National Bestseller. Tobia was featured as a guest on
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's ''
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'' to promote the book. They discussed the term "gender chill,"
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, and the playful nature of non-binary genders. ''Sissy'' was well-received by
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, which compared Tobia to
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and
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. They wrote, " obiacombines incisive wit and undeniable intelligence to invite readers into their journey as a gender-nonconforming young person in North Carolina...If Tobia aspires to the ranks of comic memoirists like David Sedaris and Mindy Kaling, ''Sissy'' succeeds." In November 2019,
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announced they are developing a half-hour show based on Tobia's memoir ''Sissy: A Coming-of-Gender Story''. Tobia will serve as co-writer and co-executive producer for the adaptation alongside
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series, ''
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''. The series will follow the life of Tobi Gibran, a non-binary student who moves from North Carolina to New York City.


Personal life

Tobia identifies as
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and uses singular ''they'' pronouns.


Bibliography

* ''Transgender Today: Jacob Tobia'' for ''
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'' *''I am neither Mr, Mrs nor Ms but Mx'' for ''
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'' *''Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Gender-Neutral Pronouns'' for Motto by ''
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'' *''An Open Letter to North Carolina's Lawmakers from a Trans North Carolinian'' for ''
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'' *''Telling Trans Stories Beyond 'Born in the Wrong Body'' for
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*''I Have Long Nails Because I'm Proud Of What They Mean'' for BuzzFeed *''The 1970s Feminist Who Warned Against Leaning In'' for BuzzFeed *''An Affront against All Women'' for New America Weekly *''Trans Fashion is Not (Necessarily) Trans Empowerment'' for Hooligan Magazine *''How Student Activists at Duke Transformed a $6 Billion Endowment'' for ''
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'' *''Where I Belong'' for Duke Magazine *''LGBTQIA: A Beginner's Guide to the Great Alphabet Soup Of Queer Identity'' for Mic *''To All the Married Gay Couples Out There: The Fight Doesn't End With DOMA's Ruling'' for Mic *''Obama Morehouse Speech: Was the President Unintentionally Transphobic?'' for Mic *''The Power of Trans Vulnerability'' for ''
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'' *''Five Dos and Five Don'ts for College Seniors (From a Point Scholar Who's Been There)'' for ''The Huffington Post'' *''Dear Mr. President: Students Ask Obama to Protect LGBT Employees'' for ''The Huffington Post'' *''Why You Should Be Optimistic After Amendment One: A North Carolinian's Perspective'' for ''The Huffington Post'' *''Why I'm Genderqueer, Professional and Unafraid'' for ''The Huffington Post'' *''The Orlando Shooting Was An Act Of Hate'' for
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*''How To Talk To Your Parents About Being Genderqueer'' for
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*''I'm Genderqueer — Please Stop Asking Me When I'm 'Really' Going To Transition'' for
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*''Jacob Tobia - Promoting a “Gender-Chill” Exploration of Identity with “Sissy” , The Daily Show with Trevor Noah''


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