"Have You Ever Really Loved a Woman?" is a song written by Canadian musician

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and

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, and recorded by Adams for the 1995 film ''

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'', starring Marlon Brando, Johnny Depp and

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. The melody is used as a musical motif through the film, and the song is featured three times in the movie, twice performed by other artists in Spanish, and finally performed by Adams himself during the closing credits. The Adams version of the song, which features flamenco guitarist

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, is featured on the soundtrack album and also on the album ''

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'', which was released over a year later. The song stayed at number one for five weeks on the ''Billboard'' Hot 100 in the United States, making it the third number-one song for the songwriting team. It also went to number one in Canada, Australia, Austria, and Switzerland while reaching the top five in 10 additional countries, including France and the United Kingdom, and the top ten in a further four countries. The song was nominated for Best Original Song at the

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but lost to "

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" from ''

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''.

Critical reception

Paul Verna from '' Billboard'' described the song as "sultry". Steve Baltin from '' Cash Box'' noted that here, "the king of soundtrack

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s attempts to reclaim his throne". He added further, "The

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introduction lends the false hope this may be something different, but it's the same old Adams. Be careful not to operate any heavy machinery while under the influence of this one." Fell and Rufer from the '' Gavin Report'' viewed it as an "unusual

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with #1 written all over it." Pan-European magazine '' Music & Media'' commented, "Everything is there to make it work: a film, ''Don Juan De Marco'', a ballad, a long song title but nothing between brackets, guitarist

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and Adams' hoarse voice." Christine Coulter, librarian/programmer at

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stated, "It's absolutely different from his previous film ballads. The film, which will be issued here in May I believe, is not the reason we play it. For us it's a track that stands fully on its own." A reviewer from ''

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'' gave it three out of five, writing that "Bryan comes over all

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for this strong ballad which arrives replete with Spanish guitar flourishes and

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." The magazine's Alan Jones described it as "a simple, singalong song in waltztime, with acoustic Spanish style guitar picking."

Music video

The accompanying

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for "Have You Ever Really Loved a Woman?" was shot in

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at Casa los Pavos Reales, Málaga starring

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and

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. It was directed by the music video director Anton Corbijn and was released in May 1995.

Track listing

* CD single # "Have You Ever Really Loved a Woman?" – 4:52 # "Low Life" – 4:17

Charts

Weekly charts

Year-end charts

Decade-end charts

Certifications

Release history

References

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