Get a life is an

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and

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that has gained international usage. It is intended as a

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, to indicate that the person being so addressed is attempting to devote themselves to other people's responsibilities. Sometimes the phrase is used to describe people who are viewed as officious or meddling in the affairs of others. It is another way of saying "get your own life", or "

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". The phrase has also appeared as a generally more emphatic variant of the taunt "get a job" and implies the addressee needs to go out and make their way in the world, without being supported by outside sources such as

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s or benefactors. It may also be directed at someone who is perceived as boring or single-minded; suggesting they acquire some other, more practical interests or

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and get

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, find a

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, or move into their own home. It is also applied to

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s and others who are perceived as dedicated to their work, but not taking the time to relax or enjoy life.

Documented early use

*1983: The first

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citation is from a January 1983 ''

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'' article: "''Gross me out, I mean,

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was, like, ohmigod, it was last year, fer sure! I mean, get a life! Say what?''" *1986: Appears in ''Baby Anger'' page 48 as "Get a life, people of New Jersey!" *1986: The phrase was used by actor

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in his appearance in a December episode of ''

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'', in which he shows up at a ''Star Trek'' convention and implores a group of

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s who are obsessed with the details of Shatner's life to move out of their parents' basements and "get a life."

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