Garrard Conley (born
) is an American author and
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activist known for his autobiography ''
Boy Erased: A Memoir'', recounting his childhood as part of a
fundamentalist
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family in
Arkansas
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that enrolled him in
conversion therapy
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. The book was adapted for the 2018 film, ''
Boy Erased
''Boy Erased'' is a 2018 American biographical drama film based on Garrard Conley's 2016 memoir of the same name. It is written and directed by Joel Edgerton, who also produced with Kerry Kohansky Roberts and Steve Golin. The film stars Lucas ...
''.
Early life and education
Conley was raised first in
Cherokee Village and then later in
Mountain Home, Arkansas
Mountain Home is a city in, and the county seat of, Baxter County, Arkansas, United States, in the southern Ozark Mountains near the northern state border with Missouri. As of the 2010 census, the city had a population of 12,448. A total of 41, ...
. His father is a
Southern Baptist
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preacher and former car salesman. Garrard "spent years struggling to reconcile his
sexuality
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with his faith".
His family had a house on
Lake Thunderbird
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where Conley would spend time on their pontoon boat.
He attended
Lyon College
, mottoeng = Perseverance Conquers All, God Willing.
, established =
, type = Private college
, president = Melissa Taverner
, city = Batesville
, state = Arkansas
, country = United States
, students = 665
, faculty = 61
, campus = Rural town ...
for a semester before returning home after being
outed
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to his parents by a student who had
raped
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Conley. Conley was sent to
Love in Action
Restoration Path, known as Love in Action (LIA) until March 2012, was an ex-gay Christian ministry founded in 1973.
History
It was founded in 1973 by Frank Worthen, John Evans, and Kent Philpott. The program was founded in Marin County, Californi ...
to undergo
conversion therapy
Conversion therapy is the pseudoscientific practice of attempting to change an individual's sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression to align with heterosexual and cisgender norms. In contrast to evidence-based medicine and cli ...
—the controversial
pseudoscientific
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practice of trying to change someone's
sexual orientation
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from
homosexual
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to
heterosexual
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using psychological or spiritual interventions—in 2004. At Love in Action, he underwent treatments by
John Smid
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Career
During his time directing Love In Action, Smid faced controversy ov ...
, who later left the organization, disavowed conversion therapy, announced he was still gay and stated he had "never met a man who experienced a change from homosexual to heterosexual."
Career
In 2016, Conley taught English literature at the
American College of Sofia
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The college was founded in 1860 and is regarded as the oldest American educational institution outside the United States.This title i ...
in
Bulgaria
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.
He is the author of ''
Boy Erased: A Memoir'', which was based on his experiences at Love in Action. The book was later adapted into the 2018 film ''
Boy Erased
''Boy Erased'' is a 2018 American biographical drama film based on Garrard Conley's 2016 memoir of the same name. It is written and directed by Joel Edgerton, who also produced with Kerry Kohansky Roberts and Steve Golin. The film stars Lucas ...
'' by
Joel Edgerton
Joel Edgerton (born 23 June 1974) is an Australian actor and filmmaker. He is best known for his appearance in the ''Star Wars'' films ''Attack of the Clones'' (2002) and ''Revenge of the Sith'' (2005) as a young Owen Lars, a role he reprised i ...
, with
Lucas Hedges
Lucas Hedges (born December 12, 1996) is an American actor. A son of filmmaker Peter Hedges, he studied theater at the University of North Carolina School of the Arts. Hedges began his acting career with a supporting role in Wes Anderson's comed ...
playing Conley. He leveraged his newfound fame to "educate the public about the abusive practice of conversion therapy".
Conley released a four-episode podcast titled ''UnErased: The History of Conversion Therapy in America'' shortly before the release of the film. In 2018, Conley led
GrubStreet's Memoir Incubator program.
He has continued to travel worldwide telling his story: in 2019, he presented to
Southern Utah University
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,
Equality Utah
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History
Equality Utah was founded in 2001 as Unity U ...
, venues in Germany and Switzerland, and gave a keynote speech for Iowa Safe Schools.
In June 2019, to mark the
50th anniversary of the
Stonewall riots
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, an event widely considered a watershed moment in the modern
LGBTQ rights movement
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, ''
Queerty
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History
''Queerty'' was founded by David ...
'' named him one of the Pride50 "trailblazing individuals who actively ensure society remains moving towards
equality
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, acceptance and dignity for all
queer
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people".
Conley currently holds an Assistant Professor of Creative Writing position at
Kennesaw State University
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.
Personal life
Conley resides in
New York City
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with his husband.
References
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21st-century American male writers
21st-century American memoirists
American gay writers
Gay memoirists
Writers from Arkansas
LGBT people from Arkansas
People self-identified as ex-ex-gay
People from Mountain Home, Arkansas