Etymology
The term ''Friedelehe'' means approximately "lover marriage". The modern German word ''Friedel'' is derived from the Old High German ''friudil'', which meant "lover", or "sweetheart"; this is in turn derived from ''frijōn'' "to love". The OHG ''friudil'' was parallel to the Old Norse ''fridl'', ''frilla'', modernDefining characteristics of ''Friedelehe'' according to Meyer
According to Herbert Meyer, the characteristics of Friedelehe were: * The husband did not become the legal guardian of the woman, in contrast to the '' Muntehe'', or dowered marriage. * The marriage was based on a consensual agreement between husband and wife, that is, both had the desire to marry. * The woman had the same right as the man to ask for divorce. * ''Friedelehe'' was usually contracted between couples from different social status. * ''Friedelehe'' was not synonymous with polygyny, but enabled it. * The children of a ''Friedelehe'' were not under the control of the father, but only that of the mother. * Children of a ''Friedelehe'' initially enjoyed full inheritance rights; under the growing influence of the church their position was continuously weakened. * A ''Friedelehe'' came into being solely by public conveyance of the bride to the groom's domicile and the wedding night consummation; the bride also received a '' Morgengabe''. * A ''Friedelehe'' was able to be converted into a ''Muntehe'' (dowered or guardianship marriage), if the husband subsequently conveyed bridewealth. Perhaps the best known historic individual to have been born under a Friedelehe was Charlemagne who unified much of Europe in the Middle Ages. Most historians agree that he was born on 2 April 742 while his parents,Criticism of Meyer's definition
According to research in the early years of the 21st century (among others that of Else Ebel, Karl Heidecker and Andrea Esmyol), indications have accumulated providing evidence to the effect that ''Friedelehe'' is a mere research artifact, a construct that arose from a faulty interpretation of the sources by Meyer. The following points of criticism have been raised: * Ebel reviewed the Old Norse sources used by Meyer, and could not confirm Meyer's conclusions. She criticized him for taking some citations out of context, distorting their meaning.Ebel, Else. ''Der Konkubinat nach altwestnordischen Quellen: Philologische Studien zur sogenannten "Friedelehe."'' (''Concubinage According to Old West Nordic Sources: Philological Studies on the So-Called "Friedelehe."''). ''Ergänzungsbände zum Reallexikon der germanischen Altertumskunde 8'', Berlin, Walter de Gruyter, 1993. * According to Esmyol, the textual citations used by Meyer all relate either to concubinage or to dowered marriages, and do not lead to any conclusions about the existence of a freer form of marriage such as ''Friedelehe''. * In addition, Meyer's most frequently used sources date from a time in which, even according to his own opinion, ''Friedelehe'' no longer existed. That Meyer's theory was still able to prevail in this field of research for decades may be attributed to the specific context in which it developed. It was, on the one hand, a time in the 19th and early 20th century characterized by a search for historical models for freer choice in the amatory realm. In later years the Nazi regime ensured that Meyer's theory received attention, since it fit very well into the Nazi ideology emphasizing Germanic heritage and promoting a higher birthrate (cf. Lebensborn).Literature
* Meyer, Herbert. ''Friedelehe und Mutterrecht'' (''Friedelehe and Maternal Rights)''. Weimar 1927 (In spite of the rather old publication date, this continues to be the central work for ''Friedelehe''.) * Peuckert, Will-Erich. ''Ehe; Weiberzeit-Männerzeit-Saeterehe-Hofehe-Freie Ehe''. Classen, Hamburg.References
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