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Everyone's Invited is an anti-rape movement organisation based in the United Kingdom, focused on exposing
rape culture Rape culture is a setting, studied by several sociological theories, in which rape is pervasive and normalized due to societal attitudes about gender and sexuality. Behaviors commonly associated with rape culture include victim blaming, slut-s ...
through "conversation, education and support." It was founded in June 2020 by Soma Sara, and allows survivors of rape culture to share their stories through testimonies shared anonymously on their website and
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profile.


History

In June 2020, after watching the
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television series ''
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'' (2020), Soma Sara began sharing her personal experiences of
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via
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platform
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. In response, she received messages from people who could relate to her experiences and those who shared their own experiences of
misogyny Misogyny () is hatred of, contempt for, or prejudice against women. It is a form of sexism that is used to keep women at a lower social status than men, thus maintaining the societal roles of patriarchy. Misogyny has been widely practiced fo ...
, harassment, sexual abuse and
sexual assault Sexual assault is an act in which one intentionally sexually touches another person without that person's consent, or coerces or physically forces a person to engage in a sexual act against their will. It is a form of sexual violence, which ...
. Within a week, she had received and shared over 300
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responses. She used this as grounds to launch Everyone's Invited. Meadow Walker, daughter of actor Paul Walker, became a part of the team, expanding its influence to the United States. Sara says that
sex education Sex education, also known as sexual education, sexuality education or sex ed, is the instruction of issues relating to human sexuality, including emotional relations and responsibilities, human sexual anatomy, Human sexual activity, sexual acti ...
in schools is the "root of the problem", and that a more comprehensive programme is needed. She also believes that most of the behaviours are internalised and is against
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, saying that she believes the movement can't be "weaponise with it and that it is "counter-productive". The Instagram campaign encourages victims, mostly in schools, to share their experiences of rape culture, sexual harassment, slut-shaming,
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into sex or sharing of nude photographs and more, anonymously, in what the organisation calls "testimony". In March 2021, following the
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, these testimonies saw a rise in popularity, going "viral". As of 10 June 2021, 16,554 testimonies had been submitted. Though no individuals are mentioned in the testimonies, schools are, including some of the most prestigious schools in England; single-sex ones such as St Paul's School,
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and
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, and
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ones too, including Latymer Upper School and
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. Towards the end of March 2021 and in April 2021, the movement shifted focus towards universities in the United Kingdom; between 26 March and 1 April, over 1,000 testimonies were submitted from students in universities. "Elite" institutions such as the
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, the
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and
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were named. The organisation published a list of 17 universities that attracted the most allegations, and 15 of the universities named were a part of the
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, a British association of universities. In June 2021 Everyone's Invited released a list of all the schools or colleges in the UK and Ireland it had received testimonies from, almost 3,000. This included 2,556 are secondary schools and 406 are primary schools.


Response


Media coverage

Following the testimonies going "viral" in March 2021, the campaign received mainstream media coverage, with papers including ''
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'',
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, the ''
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'' publishing articles about the movement, and Sara also appeared on national television to talk about it. It is seen as the first time the popular Me Too movement focused on a "problematic culture" in schools.


School responses

Latymer Upper School made a statement condemning the actions described in the testimonies, calling them "deeply disturbing", before informing the police. A spokesperson for
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said that the school "always take any specific allegations – including about the sending or sharing of explicit images – extremely seriously", that they are investigated "thoroughly", and that "any disciplinary action required" is taken, while St Paul's School also said that they "always investigate fully matters of this nature".
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, chairman of the
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, encouraged pupils to inform their schools, in person, about their experiences, saying that it is "difficult" dealing with anonymous statements, of which many "relate to incidents which took place outside school at social events."


Police response

In March 2021, the
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began contacting schools which they could identify from the Everyone's Invited testimonies;
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launched a national investigation into the claims on 27 March 2021, with officials from the Home Office and
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"leading a cross-
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response with senior officers". It was revealed that a helpline was to be set up by the police. The National Police Chiefs' Council said that the issue of rape culture in schools "presented a huge challenge to society". Scotland Yard's rape and sexual offences lead Detective Superintendent Mel Laremore told
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that the issue is a "national" one, adding that she thinks "it is more widespread than private schools." Chief Constable Simon Bailey, who is also the National Police Chiefs' Council lead on child protection, said that "this is the next scandal" within schools. He also said "I think schools are quite frankly struggling with the sheer scale of this", and that it's not right that girls are "having to run the gauntlet of sexual harassment, misogyny, the sending of nudes, unsolicited or indecent images being sent to them."


Government response

The chair of the Education Select Committee,
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, called for an independent investigation, outside of the police force, to be set up afterwards, describing the situation as "appalling". He also said that the
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(Ofsted) should be responsible for the safeguarding inspections of independent schools, rather than an inspection regime appointed by the school themselves, which is what the current system allows. A government spokesperson said: "We are very concerned by the significant number of allegations recently posted on the Everyone's Invited website. The abuse of children and young people in all its forms is abhorrent." A helpline, run by the National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children (NSPCC), was launched on 1 April 2021, which received 426 calls up to the 7 June 2021 and made 80 referrals to external agencies and an immediate review into abuse in schools by
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was initiated. In June 2021
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released its rapid report on sexual abuse in schools and colleges. It conducted interviews with over 900 children and young people and staff in 32 schools and colleges in England. It said that sexual harassment has become "normalised" among school-age children, with nine in 10 girls having experienced sexist name-calling or were sent explicit photos or videos. It also said that more than two-thirds of girls said they endured unwanted touching "a lot" or "sometimes", while eight in 10 said they had been put under pressure to share sexual images of themselves. The report said that students often do not see the point of reporting abuse and many teachers underestimate the scale of these problems.
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, the Education Minister in Wales, said the issue "is a priority for us here in Wales too". He said that the Welsh Government is looking at what is the best way to respond to this, and this could include an inquiry by the Welsh inspectorate,
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.


Other reactions

Further results of Everyone's Invited's growing popularity in March 2021 included a letter being sent to King's College School, London, by a former Head Girl of
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, describing King's College School as a "hotbed of sexual violence", and
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s at
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in retaliation to a dossier published by ''
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'' which included over 220 testimonies of sexual assault at the school. ''The Times'' also published an open letter from a former Dulwich College pupil, tagging the school as a "breeding ground for sexual predators".


Recognition

In 2021, Soma Sara, the founder, was recognised as one of the BBC's 100 women.


References


External links

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