"Dude (Looks Like a Lady)" is a song by American
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band
Aerosmith. It was released as the lead single from the band's ninth studio album ''
Permanent Vacation'' in 1987.
The track reached number 14 on the
''Billboard'' Hot 100, number 41 on the
Hot Dance Club Play
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chart, number four on the
Mainstream Rock Tracks chart, number 22 on the Canadian ''
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'' Top Singles chart and number 45 on the
UK Singles Chart
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. It was re-released in early 1990 and peaked at number 20 in the UK. It was certified Silver in the UK for selling over 200,000 copies.
The song was written by lead singer
Steven Tyler, lead guitarist
Joe Perry and songwriter
Desmond Child.
Origins
The song, which originally started out as "Cruisin' for a Lady", talks about a man with an effeminate appearance, who is mistaken for a woman. Steven Tyler states in the book ''
Walk This Way: The Autobiography of Aerosmith'': "One day we met
Mötley Crüe, and they're all going, 'Dude!' Dude this and Dude that, everything was Dude. 'Dude (Looks Like a Lady)' came out of that session."
According to Child, Tyler came up with the idea of the song while at a bar and mistaking Mötley Crüe's lead singer
Vince Neil for a woman with long blonde hair. Tyler's bandmates made fun of him, joking about how the “dude looked like a lady.”
Mötley Crüe's
Nikki Sixx
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, in his book, ''
The Heroin Diaries'', states that the song was inspired by Neil.
Joe Perry came up with the chorus riff, and Tyler came up with the chorus
refrain. Tyler originally sang the hook as "cruisin' for the ladies", but Child lambasted the lyrical idea, stating that "I don't think
Van Halen
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would put that on the B-side of their worst record."
Child stated that the band had originally wanted to use the lyric " ‘Cruisin’ for the Ladies" instead of "Dude Looks Like a Lady" for fear that the latter would offend the gay community but Child told him that "‘I’m gay. It’s not offensive. It’s great." and convinced the band to use those lyrics.
Controversy
Despite the song's mainstream success, "Dude (Looks Like a Lady)" has often been accused of being
transphobic
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, with "its lyrics and music video’s offensive insinuations about trans women."
In a 2012 interview, Child said about the song, "I talked
Aerosmith into the whole scenario of a guy that walks into a strip joint and falls in love with the stripper on stage, goes backstage and finds out it's a guy."
In 2019, Child confirmed that the song was about a man who "just walks into a bar and sees this gorgeous blonde up on the stage and then goes backstage after the show and then she 'whips out a gun, tries to blow me away.'"
Perry was concerned that the subject matter of the song would offend the gay community, but Child said, "Okay, I'm gay, and I'm not insulted. Let's write this song."
''Vox'''s Abbey White pointed out that "the song also plays on the idea that trans women intentionally deceive men or are 'in disguise', that they are unattractive or repulsive... and at one point mixes pronouns, going from 'Oh she like it' in one line to 'Oh, he was a lady,' in the next."
Child has refuted all allegations of transphobia, describing the song as "accepting" because of the lyric "never judge a book by its cover, or who you're going to love by your lover."
On August 27, 2013,
Fox News
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played this song while introducing
Chelsea Manning
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. As well as the network's use of masculine pronouns and Manning's
deadname
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, playing this song received backlash by commentators.
After
Caitlyn Jenner called "Dude (Looks Like a Lady)" her "theme song" in 2017, backlash ensued from fans and from LGBT activists due to the perceived transphobia.
Reception
''
Cash Box'' said that it has "humorous lyrics coupled with a driving rock beat."
Music video
The video for "Dude (Looks Like a Lady)" features the band performing live onstage as well as random moments of characters portraying
drag queens
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, including a cameo appearance by
A&R man
John Kalodner
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History
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dressed up in a wedding dress at one point. This is a joke based on the fact that Kalodner always dresses in white.
Joe Perry's wife Billie also appears in the music video, pretending to play the saxophone on stage.
There are also some provocative sexual performances, both led by singer Steven Tyler as well as a presumed female who has her skirt torn off to reveal the Aerosmith "wings"
tattoo
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on her
buttocks
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. The video was directed by
Marty Callner.
Award nominations
"Dude" picked up two
MTV Video Music Award
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nominations in 1988 (the first for the band). It was nominated for Best Group Video and Best Stage Performance, but failed to gain the wins. The band made up for it eventually, winning over 10 "moon-men" and 4
Grammys
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in the 1990s.
Credits and personnel
*
Steven Tyler – lead vocals
*
Joe Perry – lead guitar, backing vocals
*
Brad Whitford
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– rhythm guitar
*
Tom Hamilton – bass guitar
*
Joey Kramer – drums
Additional personnel
*
Tom Keenlyside
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Biography
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– clarinet, tenor saxaphone,
horn arrangement
* Ian Putz – baritone saxaphone
* Bob Rogers – trombone
* Henry Christian – trumpet
*
Bruce Fairbairn – trumpet, background vocals
Charts and certifications
Weekly charts
Certifications
Legacy
The song has long been a staple on both rock radio and in concert, as the band has regularly rotated it into their
set list
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s over the years.
The song has been featured on a number of subsequent compilation albums by Aerosmith including 1994's ''
Big Ones
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'', 2002's ''
O, Yeah! Ultimate Aerosmith Hits
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'', 2006's ''
Devil's Got a New Disguise: The Very Best of Aerosmith'', and the 1998 live album, ''
A Little South of Sanity''.
Concurrent with its chart run, the song was played in the 1987 comedy film ''
Like Father Like Son'', starring
Kirk Cameron
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and
Dudley Moore
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.
Professional wrestler
Roddy Piper appeared as a guest VJ on
MTV shortly after the song's release. During one segment, the song's video was played, followed by a
Michael Jackson
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video. Piper appeared afterward, repeatedly chanting "Dude looks like a lady!" in the manic fashion of a
wrestling interview, intended more as a jab at Jackson than any reference to Aerosmith or the song.
In 1993, the song was prominently featured in the film ''
Mrs. Doubtfire
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'', during a montage of the main character bonding with his family in disguise as a woman. The song was also used in the film's TV ads.
Randi Mayem Singer, the writer of ''Mrs. Doubtfire'', credits "Dude (Looks Like a Lady)" as one of the most important songs ever written and as the direct influence for writing the script. She was quoted as saying "Without
Dude (Looks Like a Lady)' there would be no ''Mrs. Doubtfire''".
The song was also featured in the movie ''
It's Pat
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'' where the title character (played by
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) sings a karaoke version at their wedding reception. The song fits in with the running joke throughout the film, in reference to Pat's gender ambiguity.
The song was performed live by the band in the movie, ''
Wayne's World 2
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'', and is featured on the soundtrack for the film.
In "
There's Something About Marrying
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'', Veronica is singing the song while shaving as
Marge accidentally discovers him as a man cross-dressed as a woman who is about to marry her sister
Patty
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...
.
The video for "Dude (Looks Like a Lady)" is featured on the karaoke game ''
SingStar Vol. 2
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'' for PlayStation 3.
Colombian singer-songwriter
Shakira
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sang the song with Steven Tyler on ''
MTV Icon
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'' and also included it on the set list of her
Tour of the Mongoose
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.
The song is played as one of the possible song choices on
Rock 'n' Roller Coaster
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at
Disney's Hollywood Studios
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.
The song is featured in the MTV animated series, ''
Station Zero'' where DJ Tech played on his turntables.
See also
*
List of glam metal albums and songs
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Albums
1978
* ...
References
External links
*
'Dude (Looks Like A Lady)' review on Allmusic.com
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Glam metal songs
LGBT-related songs
LGBT-related controversies in music