To the

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marriage Marriage, also called matrimony or wedlock, is a culturally and often legally recognized union between people called spouses. It establishes rights and obligations between them, as well as between them and their children, and between ...

is of important significance both in the

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and in society. Confucius described marriage as "the union of two surnames, in friendship and in love". In the perspective of family, marriage can bring families of different

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(different clans) together, and continue the family life of the concerned clans. Therefore, only the benefits and demerits of the clans, instead of the individual couples, are concerned in a marriage. Socially, a married couple is the basic unit of the population; sometimes marriages can affect the country's political stability and international relations (especially to certain foreign tribes like

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ns,

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, and

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); thus marriage can be related to

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. From the point of view of Confucian philosophy, one of the purposes of marriage is the cultivation of virtue. The Chinese have seen that marriage () should be founded on love. Ideographically, ''hūn'' () is derived from ''hūn'' (, literally means "evening" or "dusk") in ancient writings, though the former has the radical character ''nǚ'' (, literally means a female). This is because wedding ceremonies were typically performed in the evenings when ''yang'' (representing days/male) and ''yin'' (representing nights/female) cross over. was defined as the father of a man's wife (e.g. a man's

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) in ''

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'', ''

: Explaining Relatives'': "A daughter's husband is called a 婿 ( alt. form: 壻, xù), and a 婿's father is called a 姻 (yīn), and someone's wife's father is called a 婚 (hūn)." (in Pre-Classical Chinese) but now it generally means "marriage" in Modern Standard Chinese. ''Yīn'' (), on the other hand, was defined as the father of a daughter's husband in ''Erya'', but now generally means "marriage" or "relation by marriage" in Modern Chinese. The character has the same pronunciation as its phonetic component (yīn). According to ''

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'', a

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of ancient Chinese characters, in this character is not only a phonetic component but also means to "go to" or to "follow" one's husband. ''

'': "姻 means the husbands' home. It is where the woman goes to (因), thereby called so. It consists of 女 (female) and 因 (go to), and 因 is also phonetic." (in Pre-Classical Chinese) (Note that 婿/壻 can have different meanings depending on its context. It is defined as "husband" in ''Shuowen Jiezi''.)

Further influences on marriage

Due to the concept of

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and following rites of

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, marriage was a costly affair and seen as second only to

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ceremonies. The use of a matchmaker was meant to ensure that the husband and wife were compatible with each other, but primarily worked in the families' best interests.

References

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Chinese Wedding Day - Order of Events
Marriage in Chinese culture Confucian ethics Confucian rites {{Confucianism-stub

Further influences on marriage

See also

References

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