A ''concubinatus'' (Latin for "
concubinage
Concubinage is an interpersonal and sexual relationship between a man and a woman in which the couple does not want, or cannot enter into a full marriage. Concubinage and marriage are often regarded as similar but mutually exclusive.
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" – see also ''
concubina'', "concubine", considered less pejorative than ''
paelex'', and ''
concubinus'', "man who lives with another with no legal marriage") was an institution of quasi-marriage between Roman citizens who for various reasons did not want to enter into a full marriage. The institution was often found in unbalanced couples, where one of the members belonged to a higher social class or where one of the two was
freed and the other one was
freeborn
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. However, it differed from a ''
contubernium
A ''contubernium'' was a quasi-marital relationship in ancient Rome between a free citizen and a slave or between two slaves. A slave involved in such relationship was called ''contubernalis''.
The term describes a wide range of situations, from ...
'', where at least one of the partners was a slave.
In Roman law
What
legally
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differentiated a concubinage from a marriage was a lack of ''affectio maritalis'' ("marital affection"), which was the desire of having a legal spouse, raise their rank, make them their equal, or the corresponding intent from the other party involved. A person registered in a ''concubinatus'' was not allowed to have a spouse at the same time.
Emperor
Augustus
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' ''
Leges Juliae'' gave the first legal recognition of concubinage, defining it as cohabitation without marital status. ''Concubinatus'' came to define many relationships and marriages considered unsuitable under Roman customs, such a senator's desire to marry a freedwoman, or his cohabitation with a former prostitute. A quasi-marital relationship involving a Roman citizen and a foreigner was not considered a concubinage but was rather equated to a marriage between non-Romans (''matrimonium juris gentium''), without legal consequences except those deriving from the ''
Jus gentium
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''.
While any couple could live in a concubinage instead of entering into a marriage, they were compelled to give notice to the authorities. This type of cohabitation varied little from actual marriage, except that heirs from this union were not considered legitimate. Often this was the reason that men of high rank would live with a woman in concubinage after the death of their first wife; the claims of their children from the first marriage would not be challenged by their children from the later union.
''Concubina''
The title of concubine was not considered derogatory (as it may be considered today) in ancient Rome, and was often inscribed on tombstones. Concerning the difference between a concubine and a wife, the jurist
Julius Paulus
Julius Paulus ( el, Ἰούλιος Παῦλος; fl. 2nd century and 3rd century AD), often simply referred to as Paul in English, was one of the most influential and distinguished Roman jurists. He was also a praetorian prefect under the Rom ...
wrote in his ''Opinions'' that "a concubine differs from a wife only in the regard in which she is held", meaning that a concubine was not considered a social equal to her patron, as his wife was.
Concubines did receive much protection under the law, even though they could not legally share their patron's social stature. They largely relied upon their patrons to provide for them. Early Roman law sought to differentiate between the status of concubinage and legal marriage, as demonstrated in a law attributed to
Numa Pompilius
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, the second king of Rome, circa 716–673 BCE: "A concubine shall not touch the altar of Juno. If she touches it, she shall sacrifice, with her hair unbound, a ewe lamb to Juno"; this fragment gives evidence that concubines existed early in the Roman monarchy, but also notes the banning of their involvement in the worship of Juno, the goddess of marriage. Later the jurist
Ulpian
Ulpian (; la, Gnaeus Domitius Annius Ulpianus; c. 170223? 228?) was a Roman jurist born in Tyre. He was considered one of the great legal authorities of his time and was one of the five jurists upon whom decisions were to be based according to ...
wrote on the ''Lex Julia et Papia'', "Only those women with whom intercourse is not unlawful can be kept in concubinage without the fear of committing a crime". He also said that "anyone can keep a concubine of any age unless she is less than twelve years old".
''Concubinus''
A masculine of concubine, ''concubinus'', "man in a concubinage", "male-lover", was also regularly used in Latin, although it is attested less often than ''concubina''. See, for instance,
Tac. A. 13, 21: "''Nunc per concubinum Atimetum et histrionem Paridem quasi scaenae fabulas componit.''" ("Now through her paramour, Atimetus, and the actor, Paris, she is, so to say, concocting a drama for the stage").
Polygamy
Despite traditional Roman aversion against
polygamy
Crimes
Polygamy (from Late Greek (') "state of marriage to many spouses") is the practice of marrying multiple spouses. When a man is married to more than one wife at the same time, sociologists call this polygyny. When a woman is married ...
and the fact that according to the
Roman law
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a man could not have a concubine while he had a wife, there are various notable occurrences of this, including the famous cases of the emperors
Augustus
Caesar Augustus (born Gaius Octavius; 23 September 63 BC – 19 August AD 14), also known as Octavian, was the first Roman emperor; he reigned from 27 BC until his death in AD 14. He is known for being the founder of the Roman Pri ...
,
Marcus Aurelius
Marcus Aurelius Antoninus (Latin: áːɾkus̠ auɾέːli.us̠ antɔ́ːni.us̠ English: ; 26 April 121 – 17 March 180) was Roman emperor from 161 to 180 AD and a Stoic philosopher. He was the last of the rulers known as the Five Good ...
, and
Vespasian
Vespasian (; la, Vespasianus ; 17 November AD 9 – 23/24 June 79) was a Roman emperor who reigned from AD 69 to 79. The fourth and last emperor who reigned in the Year of the Four Emperors, he founded the Flavian dynasty that ruled the Empi ...
.
Suetonius
Gaius Suetonius Tranquillus (), commonly referred to as Suetonius ( ; c. AD 69 – after AD 122), was a Roman historian who wrote during the early Imperial era of the Roman Empire.
His most important surviving work is a set of biographies ...
wrote that Augustus "put
Scribonia is second wife
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away because she was too free in complaining about the influence of his concubine". Often, in return for payment, concubines would relay appeals to their emperor. This ''de facto'' polygamy – for Roman citizens could not legally marry or cohabit with a concubine while also having a legal wife – was "tolerated to the degree that it did not threaten the religious and legal integrity of the family".
See also
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Marriage in ancient Rome
Marriage in ancient Rome () was strictly a monogamous institution: a Roman citizen by law could have only one spouse at a time. The practice of monogamy distinguished the Greeks and Romans from other ancient civilizations, in which elite males t ...
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* {{cite book
, author = Nussbaum, Martha C.
, chapter = The Incomplete Feminism of Musonius Rufus, Platonist, Stoic, and Roman
, title = The Sleep of Reason: Erotic Experience and Sexual Ethics in Ancient Greece and Rome
, url = https://archive.org/details/isbn_9780226609157
, url-access = registration
, publisher = University of Chicago Press
, year = 2002
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