"Bless your heart" is a phrase common to the
Southern United States
The Southern United States (sometimes Dixie, also referred to as the Southern States, the American South, the Southland, or simply the South) is a geographic and cultural region of the United States of America. It is between the Atlantic Ocean ...
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[ The phrase has multiple meanings and is used to express genuine sympathy but sometimes as an insult that conveys condescension, derision, or contempt. It may also be spoken as a precursor to an insult to mitigate its severity. Meanings range from sincerity to exasperation, and are primarily imparted through context and tone. While common in the South, it is primarily used by individuals who wish to "be sweet” and do not wish to "act ugly."]
Notable examples
In 2016, Nikki Haley, then governor of South Carolina
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, received extensive press coverage for saying the phrase in response to an attack by presidential candidate Donald Trump
Donald John Trump (born June 14, 1946) is an American politician, media personality, and businessman who served as the 45th president of the United States from 2017 to 2021.
Trump graduated from the Wharton School of the University of P ...
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Speaking about ex-husband Ben Affleck
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Affleck began his career as a child when he starred in the PBS education ...
's large back tattoo of a rising phoenix, Jennifer Garner
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said, "You know what we would say in my hometown about that? 'Bless his ''heart''.
See also
* Culture of the Southern United States
The culture of the Southern United States, Southern culture, or Southern heritage, is a subculture of the United States. The combination of its unique history and the fact that many Southerners maintain—and even nurture—an identity separate f ...
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Euphemisms
Quotations from religion
Slang of the Southern United States