''An Affair to Remember'' is a 1957 American
romance film
Romance films or movies involve romantic love stories recorded in visual media for broadcast in theatres or on television that focus on passion, emotion, and the affectionate romantic involvement of the main characters. Typically their journey ...
directed by
Leo McCarey
Thomas Leo McCarey (October 3, 1898 – July 5, 1969) was an American film director, screenwriter, and producer. He was involved in nearly 200 films, the most well known today being '' Duck Soup'', ''Make Way for Tomorrow'', '' The Awful T ...
and starring
Cary Grant
Cary Grant (born Archibald Alec Leach; January 18, 1904November 29, 1986) was an English-American actor. He was known for his Mid-Atlantic accent, debonair demeanor, light-hearted approach to acting, and sense of comic timing. He was one o ...
and
Deborah Kerr. Filmed in
CinemaScope, it was distributed by
20th Century Fox
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. It is considered among
the most romantic films of all time according to the
American Film Institute. The film was a remake of McCarey's 1939 film ''
Love Affair'', starring
Irene Dunne
Irene Dunne (born Irene Marie Dunn; December 20, 1898 – September 4, 1990) was an American actress who appeared in films during the Golden Age of Hollywood. She is best known for her comedic roles, though she performed in films of other gen ...
and
Charles Boyer
Charles Boyer (; 28 August 1899 – 26 August 1978) was a French-American actor who appeared in more than 80 films between 1920 and 1976. After receiving an education in drama, Boyer started on the stage, but he found his success in American fi ...
.
Plot
Nickie Ferrante, a well-known
playboy
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, meets Terry McKay aboard the transatlantic ocean liner en route from Europe to New York. Each is romantically involved with someone else. After a series of meetings aboard the ship, they establish a friendship. When Terry joins Nickie on a brief visit to his grandmother Janou while the ship is anchored near her home at
Villefranche-sur-Mer
Villefranche-sur-Mer (, ; oc, Vilafranca de Mar ; it, Villafranca Marittima ) is a resort town in the Alpes-Maritimes Departments of France, department in the Provence-Alpes-Côte d'Azur Regions of France, region on the French Riviera and is l ...
on the Mediterranean coast, she sees Nickie with new eyes and their feelings become deeper. During their visit, Janou tells Terry that Nickie is a talented painter but destroys most of his paintings because they don't meet his standards. As the ship returns to New York City, they agree to reunite at the top of the
Empire State Building in six months' time if they have succeeded in ending their relationships and starting new careers.
On the day of their rendezvous, Terry, hurrying to reach the Empire State Building, is struck down by a car while crossing a street. Gravely injured, she is rushed to the hospital. Meanwhile, Nickie, waiting for her at the observation deck at the top of the building, is unaware of the accident and, after many hours, leaves at midnight, believing that she has rejected him.
After the accident, Terry, now unable to walk, refuses to contact Nickie because of her disability. Instead, she finds work as a music teacher. Nickie has pursued his painting and has his work displayed by Courbet, an art gallery owner. Six months after the accident, Terry sees Nickie with his former fiancée at the ballet. Nickie does not notice her condition because she is seated, and they both say hello.
Nickie learns Terry's address and on Christmas Eve pays her a surprise visit. Although he tries to coax her to explain her actions, Terry dodges the subject, never leaving the couch on which she lies. He gives Terry a shawl that Janou, who has died, left for her. As he is leaving, Nickie mentions a painting on which he had been working when they first met, and that it was just given away to a woman who liked it but had no money. He is about to say that the woman was in a wheelchair when he pauses, suddenly suspecting why Terry has been lying still on the couch. He walks into her bedroom and sees the painting hanging on the wall, realizing that she was the woman in the wheelchair. The film ends with the two in a tight embrace as Terry says, "If you can paint, I can walk. Anything can happen, don't you think?"
Cast
*
Cary Grant
Cary Grant (born Archibald Alec Leach; January 18, 1904November 29, 1986) was an English-American actor. He was known for his Mid-Atlantic accent, debonair demeanor, light-hearted approach to acting, and sense of comic timing. He was one o ...
as Nicolò (Nickie) Ferrante
*
Deborah Kerr as Terry McKay
*
Richard Denning
Richard Denning (March 27, 1914 – October 11, 1998) was an American actor who starred in science fiction films of the 1950s, including '' Unknown Island'' (1948), '' Creature from the Black Lagoon'' ( 1954), '' Target Earth'' (1954), '' Day ...
as Kenneth Bradley
*
Neva Patterson
Neva Louise Patterson (February 10, 1920 – December 14, 2010) was an American actress.
Early years
Born on a farm near Nevada, Iowa, Patterson was the daughter of mailman George Patterson and seamstress Marjorie Byers Patterson. After gradu ...
as Lois Clark
*
Cathleen Nesbitt
Cathleen Nesbitt (born Kathleen Mary Nesbitt; 24 November 18882 August 1982) was an English actress.
Biography
Born in Birkenhead, Cheshire,Before 1 April 1974 Birkenhead was in Cheshire England to Thomas and Mary Catherine (née Parry) Nesb ...
as Grandmother Janou
*
Robert Q. Lewis
Robert Q. Lewis (born Robert Goldberg; April 25, 1921 – December 11, 1991) was an American radio and television personality, comedian, game show host, and actor. Lewis added the middle initial "Q" to his name accidentally on the air in 1942, ...
as Himself (announcer)
* Charles Watts as Ned Hathaway
*
Fortunio Bonanova
Fortunio Bonanova, pseudonym of Josep Lluís Moll, (13 January 1895 – 2 April 1969) was a Spanish baritone singer and a film, theater, and television actor. He occasionally worked as a producer and director.
According to Lluis Fàbregas Cuixar ...
as Courbet
*
Marni Nixon
Margaret Nixon McEathron (February 22, 1930 – July 24, 2016), known professionally as Marni Nixon, was an American soprano and ghost singer for featured actresses in musical films. She is now recognized as the singing voice of leading a ...
as Terry McKay's singing voice
Production
The film was a remake of McCarey's 1939 film ''
Love Affair'', starring
Irene Dunne
Irene Dunne (born Irene Marie Dunn; December 20, 1898 – September 4, 1990) was an American actress who appeared in films during the Golden Age of Hollywood. She is best known for her comedic roles, though she performed in films of other gen ...
as Terry and
Charles Boyer
Charles Boyer (; 28 August 1899 – 26 August 1978) was a French-American actor who appeared in more than 80 films between 1920 and 1976. After receiving an education in drama, Boyer started on the stage, but he found his success in American fi ...
as the Gallic playboy Michel Marnet. Plans for a ''Love Affair'' remake were first reported in 1952, which had
Fernando Lamas
Fernando Álvaro Lamas y de Santos (January 9, 1915 – October 8, 1982) was an Argentine-American actor and director, and the father of actor Lorenzo Lamas.
Biography Argentina
Fernando Álvaro Lamas y de Santos was born in Buenos Aires, Ar ...
and
Arlene Dahl
Arlene Carol Dahl (August 11, 1925 – November 29, 2021) was an American actress active in films from the late 1940s. She was one of the last surviving stars from the Classical Hollywood cinema era.
She was also an author and entrepreneur. Sh ...
attached to the project.
Cary Grant first worked with McCarey on ''
The Awful Truth
''The Awful Truth'' is a 1937 American screwball comedy film directed by Leo McCarey and starring Irene Dunne and Cary Grant. Based on the 1923 play ''The Awful Truth'' by Arthur Richman, the film recounts how a distrustful rich couple begins ...
'' and did not like McCarey's
improvisational strategy, but after eventually warming to it, he wished that he had starred in ''Love Affair'', and he often visited the set during production.
He enjoyed the film when it was released and convinced McCarey years later to remake it starring Grant in Boyer's role. McCarey later commented: "
Hollywood films
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all seem to be trying to find a trick way of saying 'I love you.' What are they trying to prove? Love is the oldest and noblest emotion." ''An Affair to Remember'' was almost identical to the original on a scene-to-scene basis.
[Jaynes, Barbara Grant; Trachtenberg, Robert]
''Cary Grant: A Class Apart''
Burbank, California: Turner Classic Movies
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(TCM) and Turner Entertainment
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. 2004. Grant believed that ''Love Affair'' was superior. McCarey used the same screenplay as was employed for the original film, written by
Delmer Daves
Delmer Lawrence Daves (July 24, 1904 – August 17, 1977) was an American screenwriter, film director and film producer. He worked in many genres, including film noir and warfare, but he is best known for his Western movies, especially '' Broke ...
and
Donald Ogden Stewart
Donald Ogden Stewart (November 30, 1894 – August 2, 1980) was an American writer and screenwriter best known for his sophisticated golden age comedies and melodramas such as '' The Philadelphia Story'' (based on the play by Philip Barry), '' T ...
, but Stewart was not included in the credits because he had been
blacklisted. Filming took place between February and April 1957.
Grant was reportedly grumpy during filming because his
hypnotherapy with his wife caused him to dislike smoking.
He also underwent an operation during production to treat a lump on his forehead that resulted from a childhood injury.
The theme song "
An Affair to Remember (Our Love Affair)
"An Affair to Remember (Our Love Affair)" is a 1957 romantic song which was composed by Harry Warren for the 1957 film ''An Affair to Remember''. Lyrics were by Leo McCarey and Harold Adamson. The song is sung by Vic Damone during the film's openi ...
," composed by
Harry Warren and with lyrics by
Leo McCarey
Thomas Leo McCarey (October 3, 1898 – July 5, 1969) was an American film director, screenwriter, and producer. He was involved in nearly 200 films, the most well known today being '' Duck Soup'', ''Make Way for Tomorrow'', '' The Awful T ...
and
Harold Adamson
Harold Campbell Adamson (December 10, 1906 – August 17, 1980) was an American lyricist during the 1930s and 1940s.
Early life
Adamson, the son of building contractor Harold Adamson and Marion "Minnie" Campbell Adamson, was born and raised in ...
, was sung by
Vic Damone
Vic Damone (born Vito Rocco Farinola; June 12, 1928 – February 11, 2018) was an American traditional pop and big band singer and actor. He was best known for his performances of songs such as the number one hit "You're Breaking My Heart", and ...
over the opening credits and by
Marni Nixon
Margaret Nixon McEathron (February 22, 1930 – July 24, 2016), known professionally as Marni Nixon, was an American soprano and ghost singer for featured actresses in musical films. She is now recognized as the singing voice of leading a ...
(who
dubbed Kerr)
during the film.
Songs
* "Continué," sung by
Marni Nixon
Margaret Nixon McEathron (February 22, 1930 – July 24, 2016), known professionally as Marni Nixon, was an American soprano and ghost singer for featured actresses in musical films. She is now recognized as the singing voice of leading a ...
(dubbing for Deborah Kerr)
* "The Tiny Scout (He Knows You Inside Out)"
* "Tomorrow Land"
* "You Make It Easy to Be True"
Novelization
In anticipation of the film's release,
Avon Books
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published a paperback novelization of the screenplay. The byline Owen Aherne was a pseudonym for American novelist
R.V. Cassill.
Reception
Critical reaction
Bosley Crowther
Francis Bosley Crowther Jr. (July 13, 1905 – March 7, 1981) was an American journalist, writer, and film critic for ''The New York Times'' for 27 years. His work helped shape the careers of many actors, directors and screenwriters, though his ...
of ''
The New York Times
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'' found the early part of the film fairly enjoyable, with "plenty of humorous conversation that is handled crisply" by the leads, but concluded that the picture goes wrong after the couple disembarks, writing: "The marriage pact seems ridiculously childish for a couple of adult people to make. The lady's failure to notify her fiancé of her accident seems absurd. The fact that the man does not hear of it in some way is beyond belief. And the slowness with which he grasps the obvious when he calls upon the lady is just too thick."
Richard L. Coe of ''
The Washington Post
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'' agreed, writing that the film "boasts early amusing reels that ultimately become unbelievably foolish in the quest for audience tears." ''
Variety
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'' disagreed, calling the romance "never maudlin" and "wholly believable" in a positive review of what it called "a winning film" with "all the ingredients that should make it an ideal women's picture." ''
Harrison's Reports'' was also positive, calling it "more enchanting and delightful than the original" and "so powerful in the closing scenes that one is unable to fight back the tears."
John McCarten
John McCarten (September 10, 1911, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania – September 25, 1974, New York City) was an American writer who contributed about 1,000 pieces for ''The New Yorker'', serving as the magazine's film critic from 1945 to 1960 and B ...
of ''
The New Yorker
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'' was dismissive, writing that the actors were "tolerable, but the movie is really awfully maudlin." A generally positive review in ''
The Monthly Film Bulletin
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'' called the film "a lush slice of Hollywood romanticism, unashamedly following most of the familiar conventions of glossy magazine fiction. To judge it on a higher level would normally seem unfair if it were not that here the script does succeed in cutting rather deeper. The relationship between Ferrante and Terry McKay is briskly developed, with an attractive, often touching humor."
The film holds a 65% rating on
Rotten Tomatoes
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based on 31 reviews. In 1998,
Jonathan Rosenbaum
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of the ''
Chicago Reader'' included the film in his unranked list of the best American films not included on the
AFI Top 100. It is one of the
BFI
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's "50 great Christmas films currently streaming".
Accolades
*
AFI's 100 Years...100 Passions – #5
*
AFI's 100 Years...100 Movie Quotes:
** "Oh, it was nobody's fault but my own. I was looking up. It was the nearest thing to heaven. You were there."—Nominated
Legacy
*
Nora Ephron
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's 1993 film ''
Sleepless in Seattle
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'', starring
Tom Hanks
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and
Meg Ryan
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, was partly inspired by ''An Affair to Remember'', particularly the ending. References, clips and the theme song from the earlier film are used throughout.
* A
1994 remake, reverting to the original title of ''Love Affair'', starred
Warren Beatty
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(who also wrote and produced) and his wife
Annette Bening
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. The film featured
Katharine Hepburn in her last screen appearance, portraying the male protagonist's aunt; this character replaces the grandmother from the original film.
* ''İlk Aşk'', a 1960 Turkish film, was an adaptation of the film.
* ''
Bheegi Raat'', a 1965
Bollywood
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film starring
Ashok Kumar
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He ...
and
Meena Kumari
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, was an adaptation of the film.
* ''Yağmur'', a 1971 Turkish film starring
Hülya Koçyiğit
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and
Ediz Hun, was an adaptation of the film.
* ''
Mann'', a 1999 Bollywood film starring
Aamir Khan
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and
Manisha Koirala
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was almost a scene-by-scene copy of the film.
* The 1999 Indian
Telugu
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S ...
-language film ''
Ravoyi Chandamama
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'' was an adaptation of the film.
* In 2009, the HBO film ''
Grey Gardens
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'' licensed an aerial shot of
The Pierre
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hotel from this film.
[Grey Gardens DVD - 2009 - HBO - Audio commentary with executive producers Michael Sucsy, Lucy Barzun Donnelly and Rachael Horovitz]
* The climax of the 1980 Bollywood film ''
Ek Baar Kaho
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'' is inspired by this film's climax.
* A sound clip from the film was used on
Basement's 2011 album ''I Wish I Could Stay Here'' in the song "Fading."
* In a Season 3 episode of ''
Gossip Girl
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'', characters Chuck and Blair rekindle their love and agree to meet on top of the Empire State Building at 7:01 p.m., as in the film.
* In the TV series ''
30 Rock'', Tracy Jordan claims to have starred in a remake of ''An Affair to Remember'' titled ''A Blaffair to Rememblack''.
* In an episode of the TV series ''
Family Guy'', there is a
cutaway gag
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of what the film would be like in the age of cell phones. After being struck, Terry tells Nickie that she is paralyzed, and he abruptly ends the call and tosses the phone off the observation deck.
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