Amy Grossberg And Brian Peterson
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Amy S. Grossberg (born 1978) is an American woman who delivered a baby at a
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in
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, in November 1996, assisted only by her then-boyfriend Brian C. Peterson (born 1978), who later threw the baby into a dumpster. In March 1998, Peterson pled guilty to
manslaughter Manslaughter is a common law legal term for homicide considered by law as less culpable than murder. The distinction between murder and manslaughter is sometimes said to have first been made by the ancient Athenian lawmaker Draco in the 7th cen ...
and served a two-year sentence; on April 22, 1998, Grossberg agreed to a
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, and was sentenced to two-and-a-half years in
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on July 9, 1998.


Pregnancy and birth

Grossberg and Peterson dated while at Ramapo High School, growing up in the affluent suburb of
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. Amy successfully hid the
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from her parents, wanting mostly to shield it from her mother. Grossberg wore baggy clothes and avoided her parents for the course of the nine months. In September, she enrolled as a freshman at the
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, while Peterson enrolled at college in
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. In November 1996, the eighteen-year-old's water broke. Peterson drove three hours from his college to hers, and checked them into the Comfort Inn in Newark, Delaware. Grossberg delivered the unnamed child on November 12. Conflicting stories have made the subsequent events a mystery to anyone except the couple, but Peterson and Grossberg claim they believed the infant to be
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, wrapped him in a garbage bag, and disposed of him in a dumpster.


Investigation

The bloody sheets were discovered by a cleaning woman, who immediately contacted
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. After returning to school, Grossberg began to have severe seizures as a result of not having expelled the
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. She was taken to a hospital, and it was clear to the doctors that she had just given birth. Not long after, police officials and the hospital put the two incidents together. K-9 Police dogs found the body in the dumpster. The couple's initial claim that the child was stillborn was quickly rejected. An
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indicated that the infant was delivered alive and that the cause of death was several head fractures and
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. The cause of the injuries was inconclusive. The D.A. announced that he would charge the couple with first degree murder and pursue the death penalty against them. Peterson and Grossberg, who at first seemed to remain a loving couple, turned on each other and each began blaming the other. In December 1996 they were
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for the murder. Peterson stated emphatically that Grossberg told him to "get rid of it!"; Grossberg claimed that Peterson acted alone in putting the boy into the dumpster. In March 1998, Peterson pled guilty to
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in exchange for his
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against Grossberg at her
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. In addition to his initial claims, he stated that he tried to get Amy to a hospital, but she refused. When Grossberg heard Peterson's statement in detail, she agreed to a
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, on April 22, 1998. She admitted to unintentionally causing the death of the infant and said that she and Peterson never planned to
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the baby. A concern of attorneys for both defendants regarding going to trial was that the pictures of the baby's head would be displayed in court and lead to more severe penalties. (It was noted on Court TV that such pictures could not be shown on television.) While Peterson was sentenced to two years, Grossberg was held to be more responsible and was sentenced to two-and-a-half years. Peterson was released from prison in January 2000 after serving 20 months. His incarceration was reduced for good conduct and for the time he served before his sentencing. Grossberg was released from prison in May 2000, after serving 22 months.


Aftermath

Peterson relocated from Wyckoff with his mother and step-father to
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, where he works for his family's video company. He then married college student Jaime Chabora. An artist, Grossberg started her own company, called Just Because Invitations, in February 2004.


Media portrayals

These events were depicted in a non-fiction crime book by journalist
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, who covered the case for ''
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'' of
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for more than two years. The book was titled ''Always in Our Hearts: The Story of Amy Grossberg, Brian Peterson and the Baby They Didn't Want. ''The paperback edition of the book was titled'' 'Always in Our Hearts; The Story of Amy Grossberg, Brian Peterson, The Pregnancy they Hid and the Child they Killed.'' The book traces the story from their high school days in New Jersey through the pregnancy and secret delivery in the motel room, to the court hearings and ultimately the sentencing. Of the book,
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called it a "true crime page turner" and
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said, "Teens will be drawn to this examination of a horrific crime committed by two bright college students." Peterson and Grossberg's story was fictionalized by writer
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in a story, "The Love of My Life", which appeared in his collection of short stories, ''After The Plague''. After learning of the story in the media, Boyle became curious as to how a couple could commit such an act, and explored their points of view through a fictionalized account of the case, changing certain details such as the characters' names and the gender of the infant. ''
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'' devoted a story to this case in the Season 8 episode
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(1997). In this episode, the two teens are acquitted. This Law & Order episode inspired a '' Law & Order: UK'' episode,
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(2014). ''
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'' and '' Homicide: Life on the Street'' also did episodes based on this case.


See also

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Infanticide Infanticide (or infant homicide) is the intentional killing of infants or offspring. Infanticide was a widespread practice throughout human history that was mainly used to dispose of unwanted children, its main purpose is the prevention of reso ...
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Neonaticide Neonaticide is the deliberate act of a parent Child murder, murdering their own child during the first 24 hours of life. As a noun, the word "neonaticide" may also refer to anyone who practices or who has practiced this. Neonaticide is relati ...


References


External links


New York magazine cover story "Child's Play"
Two New Jersey High School sweethearts have a baby in secret and leave it in a Delaware dumpster (13 July 1998).
Families, Murder, and Insanity: A Psychiatric Review of Paternal Neonaticide (pdf).
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