Aline Murray Kilmer (August 1, 1888 – October 1, 1941), was an American

poet A poet is a person who studies and creates poetry. Poets may describe themselves as such or be described as such by others. A poet may simply be the creator ( thinker, songwriter, writer, or author) who creates (composes) poems (oral or writte ...

, children's book author, and

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, and the wife and widow of poet and journalist

Joyce Kilmer Alfred Joyce Kilmer (December 6, 1886 – July 30, 1918) was an American writer and poet mainly remembered for a short poem titled "Trees" (1913), which was published in the collection ''Trees and Other Poems'' in 1914. Though a prolific poet who ...

(1886-1918). The couple attende
Rutgers College Preparatory School
and married shortly after his graduation from

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in 1908. In their short marriage, lasting 10 years, her husband had achieved fame as a poet, literary critic and among Catholic circles as America's most prominent Catholic writer. After his death in World War I, she began publishing her own poetry and a few children's books. Today, her work is largely forgotten.

Biography

KILMER Aline Murray Grave St Josephs Cemetery Newton NJ

She was born as Aline Murray on August 1, 1888, in

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, the daughter of Ada ( Foster) Murray, a poet; and Kenton C. Murray, editor of the ''Norfolk Landmark'' newspaper. Ada Murray remarried on February 22, 1900 in

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, the managing editor of ''

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''; he became Aline's stepfather. Aline Murray was educated at the Rutgers College Grammar School (now Rutgers Preparatory School) in

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, the latter institution from which she was graduated in 1908. Shortly after graduation, Aline married

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on June 9, 1908, after he was graduated from

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. The pair had five children: Kenton Sinclair Kilmer (1909-1995), Rose Kilburn Kilmer (1912-1917), Deborah Clanton Kilmer (1914–1999; who became a nun, "Sister Michael", at Saint Benedict Monastery, St. Joseph, Minnesota), Michael Barry Kilmer (1916-1927), and Christopher Kilmer (1917-1984). Their daughter Rose was stricken with an

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shortly after her birth, a crisis which led Joyce and Aline to convert to

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."A Tribute to Aline Kilmer" by Francis X. Talbot in ''America'' October 18, 1941, pp. 44-46. Shortly before Joyce's deployment to France in

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, Rose Kilburn Kilmer died, predeceasing both her parents. During his deployment, her husband was killed in action during the

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near Muercy Farm, beside the

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near the French village of Seringes-et-Nesles on July 30, 1918 at the age of 31. In 1927, her second son, Michael Barry Kilmer, predeceased her. After Joyce was killed in action, his widow turned to publishing her poetry and to authoring children's books. Her poetry has been described as "subtle, delicate, and somewhat subdued — certainly far from gayety", and with a tone of "ironic disillusionment" compared to her husband's as "direct, vigorous, gay."

Death

In her final three years, Aline Kilmer suffered from an excruciating illness. She died at her home, "Whitehall", in

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, on October 1, 1941, aged 52, and was interred at Saint Joseph's Catholic Cemetery in

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. Five lines from her poem, "Sanctuary", are inscribed on her gravestone:

There all bright passing beauty is held forever
Free from the sense of tears, to be loved without regret
There we shall find at their source music and love and laughter,
Colour and subtle fragrance and soft incredible textures:
Be sure we shall find what our weary hearts desire.Kilmer, Aline
"Sanctuary"
in ''Hearst International,'' Volume 41. (New York: International Publications, 1922), 22:28.

Works

* 1919: ''Candles That Burn'' (poetry) * 1921: ''Vigils'' (poetry) * 1923: ''Hunting a Hair Shirt and Other Spiritual Adventures'' (essays) * 1925: ''The Poor Kings Daughter and Other Verse'' (poetry) * 1927: ''Emmy, Nicky and Greg'' (children's book) * 1929: ''A Buttonwood Summer'' (children's book) * 1929: ''Selected Poems'' (poetry) *''To Two Little Sisters of the Poor (Date Unknown)''

References

External links

Tribute page
at ''Rising Dove'' (a site by his granddaughter)

located in Special Collections of the University of Delaware Library.

at the University of Toronto * * {{DEFAULTSORT:Kilmer, Aline Murray 1888 births 1941 deaths Converts to Roman Catholicism from Protestantism Catholics from New Jersey Catholics from Virginia American women children's writers American Roman Catholic poets American children's writers American women poets American women essayists Writers from New Jersey Writers from Norfolk, Virginia Poets from Virginia Rutgers Preparatory School alumni People from Stillwater Township, New Jersey 20th-century American poets 20th-century American women writers 20th-century American essayists